Intimacy Coordination & Direction
About
Just as a fight director ensures the physical and psychological safety of artists using violence. Intimacy Coordinators and Directors do the same for scenes of an intimate nature that include touch, kissing,nudity, or where scenes of power inequities and/or intimidation are present.
Myths & facts about IC's
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Never tell Directors how to direct scenes
We ask for their vision and how they want to see it realised
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Never ask actors to talk about or use their own sexuality or sexual practices in scenes
We support actors to create a clear practice of en-rolling and de-rolling for the character's story & scene (professional) and person (personal). We always talk from the context of the character and story we are trying to tell.
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Never touch or tell actors or artists how to act
We hold the rehearsal space, consult, provide suggestions for choreography if requested, and relay if their choreography is working for authenticity for the audience.
Never use role power or shame to cajole artists to go beyond their limits or demand explanations for consent withdrawal
Artists can withdraw consent at any time and we find workarounds to get the Director's vision realised. We're human and that's why we check in every rehearsal
Never ask actors to tongue kiss, touch genitals or use actual violence or sexual intimacy
We discuss and agree on placeholders to be used for kissing scenes and scenes of simulated sex during rehearsal periods. Wherever possible we consult on a closed rehearsal for these scenes.
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Never leave actors to negotiate or report back intimacy concerns across departments
We take the awkward out of communicating with props, makeup, and wardrobe for intimate apparel or prosthetics. We also provide progress reports and agreed choreography signed off by the director to stage managers and second ADs. We can, if requested, liaise with any third party to assist with contractual or union compliance issues and present options to producers/directors/decision makers.
Standards of practice
Here are some ways producers and directors can support environments where culture of consent is the norm.
Provide all cast and crew with;
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Consent practice workshops for creatives prior to rehearsal commencing
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Contracts that; Define any exposure or intimacy, consent, and inappropriate touch clearly and specifically.
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Clear, clinical, and specific regarding body parts to be exposed, touched, grabbed
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Recognise the power imbalance - Artists will say yes to keep a job, so provide artists and crew with a personal liaison regarding discomforts.
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Describe and display on yourself but never touch artists without true consent (not just a yes).
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Responsibilities of Lead actors/Artists to lead in best practice off stage as well as on. Rehearsal practices. Lines of support and communication
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Follow standard industry practice guidelines
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Clarify and support raising discomforts and saying no without fear of reprimand.